Make sure that the massage is personalized to your partner’s needs.


Based on how well you know your partner, the rest of the massage should be personalized. Move your hands all over their body in the way that best stimulates their mind, body, and soul.

Start with your fingertips and make slight strokes all over his or her body. As the massage goes on, move to using your whole hand and making soft and/or stronger caresses all over their body.

In addition, your massage should go all over his or her body (front, back, and sides).

Pay attention to any changes in his or her body including his or her breathing. Adjust your massage accordingly depending on what you both desire out of the experience.